Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Motherhood is Still Hard in Turkey

I don't know what has been wrong with me the last few days, but I am a big grump. Everything is frustrating me. Chase won't stop getting into and climbing onto everything, Amelia won't stop whining, the kids are sick of their toys/books/DVDs (Amelia has every song and word in "Hercules" memorized) and therefore hang on my legs all day, our housing situation has been annoyingly difficult, we keep getting lost everywhere we drive, and we are tired of going to the mall everyday. I am trying to have a good attitude, but it hasn't been easy. I am hoping things will get better when we move to our permanent apartment and can feel more settled, have more of our "stuff" from our air shipment, and have more things to do. It WILL be better, I will be happy, my kids will by happy...(positive mantras)...

And speaking of "apartment," we FINALLY have one!!! Yay! And we move in this weekend! YAY!!! Since we didn't get the apartment at our favorite place (big bummer), we chose our next favorite place - Hilpark Suites. (Yes, there is only one "l" in Hil). It is a brand new complex with lots of amenities - pools, gym, indoor and outdoor play areas - and our flat has a nice little yard (or "garden" as they call it). It's right in the middle of an old, Turkish neighborhood, so it has a rustic feel, which is cool. It is also in walking distance to play areas, grocery stores, outdoor markets, and Amelia's preschool (if she goes). And it's really close to Matt's work so it'll be easier to share the car. We're excited. Hopefully we made a good housing choice since we had to make it rather quickly - we needed something (anything) fast since we technically need to be out of our current residence by Friday. I'll post pictures of our apartment next week. Stay tuned.

Despite my bad attitude, we are still having fun. They opened the pool at our residence last week so we went for a swim on Memorial Day. The pool was so deep, Matt couldn't even touch, so the kids took turns riding on his back as he tread water. He got quite a workout.

She came up with that pose all on her own


Chase loves the water

Excited that it's her turn to swim

We are seriously at the mall everyday. Everyone at the toy store and grocery store knows who we are. We're like family now :) And they seriously treat us like family. My darling little blondes are ADORED by the people here. Workers in various shops wave us down as we pass by just to touch Amelia's hair, kiss her cheeks and even give her free stuff - like dolls, bouncy balls and candy. The people in the toy store pick up Chase, carry him around, and kiss his face and tummy. It's a little crazy, but the Turkish people are incredibly friendly and are so sweet to my little ones. I love it.

Here are some of our "Akmerkez Mall Moments":

Watching the dogs and cats at a pet shop. We check in on them daily.
The kids love to play in this water fountain

The toy store got a new riding horse one day and Amelia HAD to ride it.

Riding the "Pirates of the Caribbean" ship

Amelia's hands-down favorite ride: the swings. Morning dog liked them too :)

Chase likes the Pooh Bear ride - the swings are too scary.

Racing daddy on the motorcycles


It has been raining the last few days so we've been forced to be creative indoors. We put pillows on the floor and hop from one to the other trying not to fall in the lava, we turn the lights on and off saying "gunaydin" (good morning) and "iyi gece" (good night), and take lots of showers and baths, just for fun :)



Here's hoping for a great move-in weekend and a happy family (especially mommy)!!

13 comments:

Toria said...

oh Angie- you're bringing back so many similar memories. Hang in there. I still feel bad about the hard times I had parenting in my first months here and I'm proud of you for being open and honest about it all.
Housing woes are a bummer, but it sounds like you guys found a fantastic place. Maybe this was meant to be- I can't figure why it wasn't your first choice.
I think you guys need a little vacation, cuz we do! It's getting so hot here and I am jealous of the rain! Asher's school is out the 23rd and I'm hoping to get a little traveling in- early July. You guys up for anything?

Amy said...

Oh my gosh! Those kids are so cute! Good luck moving into your new place this weekend! I'll be thinking of you~! Love you
!

Gardners Glad Tidings said...

Oh, I miss you guys. Hang in there. You are such a good mom. The second runner up residence sounds cool. I can't wait to see it. You kids are beautiful! Seriously the people hug and kiss your kids? That's just cool! Enjoy every minute you can.

Love you!

PS Is Millie going to preschool?

Chelsea said...

Hang in there cute girl. Can't wait to see pics of your new housing. IT is hard to adjust anywhere you move, but without housing, language, and other barriers...so I can only imagine! Hope all goes smoothly this w/e.

The Bond Family said...

Thanks for your comments, everyone! I think that blog post was therapeutic because I feel SO much better today and we are all happy! :) Toria, we'd love to meet you somewhere in July or have you come here for a visit. Email me and we'll plan something. Who knew I'd have to move to Turkey to see you again :)

Kristina said...

Yay! So glad to hear that you found a place. Moving is hard... and I'm sure it is extra bad in a foreign country. I seriously think I was depressed for the first 2-3 months when we moved to our new house... even though everything was so great, it just wasn't home yet. I hate change and Andrew was often a tantrumy nightmare. I am so sad I am not coming with Elise to Turkey next week. I would love to see you!! Can't wait to see pics of your new apartment. Love the blogging- I think it is a great release when you're feeling a little down!

Sarah Foreman McKellar said...

Well I live in the USA, and I feel the SAME way about my kids right now. I sure love them, but the behavior you described is exactly why I fasted on Sunday for direction on how to handle them. You are good to be so creative with them! I am taking notes on indoor activity ideas. :)

Stephanie@Soggy Runner Girl said...

If motherhood was easier over there, I would be on a plane soon!!! I hope things get easier soon and that your new place works out well. How is your training going?

Molly and Jason said...

you needed me at the pool!!!!

Gardners Glad Tidings said...

I am having an I miss you guy moment.

I miss da baby Chase.

Love you.

Pattirae said...

I have been hopeful all week to come here and read that you have found a place to live. Yay! I wish you the best in your move this week-end. While I was reading the beginning of your post and your being a little down and frustrated, I just wanted to hold you and comfort you (that is what mommies do best isn't it?)I am really missing you lately and hearing your voice. I finally bought the webcam, signed up for skype, now how do I use it? lol We will get this all together soon, I hope. Love you, Mom

Jake, Amanda and Davis said...

I am so glad that you are able to go places that your kids like to be. There are so many more options for you there then there are here! It's either the park, or the playground at the mall. Maybe I need to start looking around for some fun places to take my kids. Does Target count? :) I love you so much and think about you EVERY DAY! Seriously, multiple times. We pray for you and think of you and hope that pretty soon you will be feeling more "at home". Much love!

JENNILLE said...

You crack me up. This is one wild adventure. Explain what exactly Matt is doing for Nike there...
Good luck. Your kids are darling.

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Angie moved to Palo Alto, CA in 2001 to get her Masters degree in Chemistry at Stanford. Matt got his MBA at BYU and started a job at The GAP in San Fransisco in 2002. We met in the Stanford singles ward and were married in the SLC Temple in 2003. Our little Amelia was born prematurely in August 2006 weighing 1lb 15oz. She is still small for her age, but perfectly healthy. Baby Chase was born 7 weeks early in September, but is now home and growing like a...baby. Matt took a job at Nike in Portland, OR in April 2008 so here we are.